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Andrea O’Loughlin's avatar

As per usual, Dave, an eloquent essay that’s as thought-provoking as it is relevant for these times. Growing up in the ‘60’s, I saw firsthand the beauty of affirming others based on who they were as fellow humans, not identified by color or nationality. Somewhere along the way, however, society has lost that perspective—and it’s a damned shame. I do see hope, however. Having dated Hispanic and Black men myself back then, only to see this country become overly sensitive about race these past 50 years, I am now thrilled to see the enduring love between my son and his wife—further proof that love sees no color, only another resonant heart. Like you, it’s been wonderful to mesh two families with more in common than different. Fingers crossed, perhaps our nation can all find seats at that Round Table you enjoyed.

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Greg's avatar

Excellent thoughts, and I'm sharing with friends. My two boys are blended; doesn't seem to bother anyone or limit them in any way at all. Probably because they are nice kids, now adults, and proved themselves along the way. They didn't ride some perceived gravy train to get into school or gain special employment, they just do what anyone raised properly would likely do, get along with friends and family, and not be dependent upon anyone when finally being on their own. They played no "I'm Special" card. That makes them strong. Short story long, I agree with you that far too many people try to pidgeon-hole people into categories. Your text supports that belief, so thanks from someone who thinks the same way.

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